Obama Accomplishments as Right-To-Life

1. CHIPS (Child Health Care) – previously rejected by Republican administration
2.  Universal Health Care – Republicans leaders said important not to give Obama a victory, even though if they had supported Democrat Stupak's amendment, could have had codified no federal funding for abortions.  Rep. Leaders said Defeating Obama's effort most important, apparently more-so than preventing abortions and providing health care to 55 million uncovered citizens.  US Bishops supported health care for all, with guarantees that abortions weren't funded.*1    
3.  Obama banned federal funding for abortions, as he'd promised Bishops.*2
4. Obama Care or the Affordable Health Care Act  provides pre-natal and early childhood care, critical to survival (US 45th *in infant survival)and physical and mental development.  Republicans vow to repeal
5. Obama Care provides for mothers' pre-natal care (US 40th* in maternal mother survival), critical to family life.
6. Obama Care provides domestic violence screening, critical to child care and family life
      “       “          “         for women's health care issues,    “      “     “      “              “       “
7. Obama reinserted many anti-pollution regs, which the Rep. Adm. had relaxed.  Vatican has recommended anti-pollution efforts.*3
8. Obama pushed local and renewable energy.  Vatican stated that Global Warming does exist and we need to immediately reverse carbon energy dependence.*4
9.  Obama's National Institute of Health funding research on use of adult stem cells.
10. Obama's  administration provides 52% of Catholic Charity funding, that provides care to children, families, elderly and disabled.
11. Obama's Prosecutorial Discretion for immigrants with no crimes, educational, employment, military achievement, with spouses and/or children, for care-givers of elderly and/or ill. Conforms to US Bishops recommendations.*5
12. Obama's Prosecutorial Discretion for domestic violence victims and witnesses of crime – conforms by recommendations from US Chief's of Police*6
13. Obama's suspending proecution toward Dream Act eligibles – critics says Obama wants to allow criminals and slackers to stay in this country.  The exact opposite is true: must be crime-free, have educational, employment and/or military achievement.
14. “Living wage”-- Obama seeks good paying jobs for middle and low income workers.  See position of Catholic Church, Popes Leo XIII, Pius XI, Pius XII, Paul VI, John Paul II and Benedict XVI.*7
15. Obama seeks more police and teachers, which have been reduced over the last several years. This particularly impacts on the safety of the most vulnerable: children, women and elderly. See Pius XI in particular.*8
www.USCCB.org
 Notes: 1. See www.USCCB.org
2. See   and Obama's executive order on use of federal funding for abortions
3. See Vatican website on green issues
4. See     “            “        “   global warming
5. See www.ice.gov/doclib/secure-communities/pdf/prosecutorial-discretion-memo.pdf
6. Same as 5
  7. Vatican Website, Encyclicals: Rerum Novarum, Quadragesimo Anno, Caritas et Veritate, etc.
8. Vatican Website, Encyclicals, Pius XI: QuadragesimoAnno

Bob Golden, worked  in Criminal Justice for 34 years.  16 years of Catholic Education, Eucharistic Minister, numerous Church activities, including being a member of the Diocesan Justice and Peace Commission.  Was chair of one of President  Reagan's Advisory Committees. He has his Masters in Counseling

Can be reached at 585-682-4821  goldenjazz59@gmail.com   .
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Faithful Catholics Shouldn't Vote Republican

1. Republicans not truly Pro-Life

1. not truly anti-abortion—

a. when in control of House, have not submitted any passable anti-abortion bills. In second debate with John McCain, candidate Obama said he'd sign a late-term abortion ban, if medical decisions were allowed. (heard and reviewed text of speech)

b. didn't back the Stupak amendment which would have banned federal funding for abortion. Republican leadership said necessary to prevent Pres. Obama victory on health care. Thus, political victory more important than unborn children.

c. Supposedly to reduce abortions, Republicans pushed a law narrowing the definition of rape – more anti-women than anti-abortion.

d. Mitt Romney campaigned as Pro-Choice and pro-Roe vs. Wade, running for senate and governor in Massachusetts. (Heard Romney say it.)

e. “Romney Care” (universal health care in Massachusetts) covered abortions and birth control.( Robert Kennedy Jr.), whereas Obama Care doesn't(read Obama's executive order banning any federal funds paying for abortions.) So Romney care paid for abortions, Obama Care doesn't.

f. Romney says he would agree with abortions in cases of incest and rape.

g. Romney recommends a “Voucher” system in place of universal health care law. Thus, we taxpayers will pay for abortions, since most private insurances cover abortion and nearly all artificial birth control. (Could try to pass law banning private money paying for abortions. Would they tell Big Business what to do?)

2. Republicans Opposed Universal Health Care – vow to repeal. US Bishops for health care for all.

Opposed CHIPS (Child Health Care)

Opposing? renewable energies – Romney calls then “fake energy”

Promoting fossil fuel – Vatican and almost all scientists say and demonstrate: global warming is real

Promoting fossil fuel – pollution is a health problem, especially for children

a. Republicans have voted for tax breaks, loopholes, subsidies, relaxed regulations and lax enforcement for fossil fuel providers

3..Have redistributed wealth from the middle-class and poor to the rich steadily since 1983.

Have converted health care to private for profit, since 1983. Many effectively denied health care, especially, children, women and elderly – Republican “quota system?”

US health care most expensive because of Republican demands. Yet:

a. We're 45^th in world in infant mortality

b. We're 40^th in maternal mortality during child birth. Is that pro-life & pro-family?

4. Romney supporting reductions in already reduced police and fire forces – hurts most vulnerable, mainly children, women, elderly and poor.

5. Opposing Obama's relief for “Dream Act eligibles” accusing Obama for catering to “freeloaders and criminals.” Obama's action does just the opposite-- rewards only productive and crime-free. Supports children and families and care-givers of children, elderly and sick.

6. Would reduce Domestic Violence funds – threatens children, families, women and elderly.

7. GOP soft on violence and other crime? – for reducing police, domestic violence funding, . narrowing rape, underfunding regulators. Opposes protection of crime victims. Has opposed regulations and adequate enforcement of fraud and huge theft by banks and other businesses. Opposed controls on credit card abuses by banks, other credit businesses. Blamed the victims of predatory lending, rather than the lenders, who deliberately targeted the uninformed and poor.

8. Opposes Obama's prosecutorial discretion on Immigrants, which supports children, family life and care-givers.

9. Opposes Obama's prosecutorial discretion on crime victims. Relief was recommended by US Chiefs of Police in order to prosecute crime and protect, women, children mostly.

10. Would defund WIC

11. Eliminate Headstart – education determinant in life

12. Reduce teachers and teacher salaries – same as #17

13. Oppose and reduce Unions vs. Popes Leo XIII and five other popes, concluding w/Benedict XVI.

14. Stopped lead testing on children(too expensive)

15. Would not protect children against heavy metal pollution

16. Opposes “just wage”* – opposing Christ, Pope Leo XIII and four succeeding popes

a. Opposes minimum wage increases

b. Opposes “ “ for farmworkers

c. Opposes work place protections for children and women (vs. Christ & Popes)

d. Allows child labor and exploitation of women

e. Held up help for unemployed middle and lower class, to get further tax breaks for super-rich.

17. Have eliminated pre-natal and early childhood care – public health used to do.

18. Most Republican candidates favor the death penalty.

19. Romney suggests war-like solutions in various world situations. He avoided Vietnam, by using Mormon mission service as excuse. Other Mormons did both their missions and serve in Vietnam.

20. Voter suppression – Republicans have sought in at least 16 states or more to suppress votes in cities, inner cities, among the poor, racial minorities, students and elderly with difficult requirements and lack of voting opportunities thrown in the way. Pennsylvania public official bragged about their restrictions guaranteeing a Romney win. A Heritage Fund (conservative think tank) representative said that there were certain people they don't want to vote. Voter Fraud is often the reason cited. However, the Bush Administration in 2006 investigated this and could find no significant voter fraud. Source for all of 20: Aug. 27/12 issue of America (Jesuit) magazine.

South Carolina investigated over 80 dead people who'd voted. Almost all had voted early and died before election day. A couple they couldn't trace. They found no instances of fraud. Source: Feb. 2012 issue of Myrtle Beach Daily News.

21. Republicans soft on monopoly enforcement, e.g. all media controlled by few. Then Romney and Republicans oppose public broadcasting.

22. Living or Just Wage—Starting in 1891, Pope Leo XIII, Pius XI, Paul VI, John Paul II and Benedict XVI(2008) have written encyclicals, considered major documents, with much prayerful theological consultation, to which “the faithful are obliged to consent:” These addressed the rights of labor. They stated that “capital” (the rich, the business owners or leaders) are required by justice to provide “decent” jobs and to pay a “just wage:” enough for a wage earner to support his family, educate his children and save enough to retire on comfortably(Benedict XVI said this and all 5 Popes agreed on this with some different wording.) They stated that the business leaders need to share with the workers the profits they helped earn, and that “capital” has no right to keep the bulk of profits to the point that their employees are paid an unjust wage. Romney says he doesn't have be concerned with the 47% of our population that don't pay taxes. (Maybe not income taxes, but certainly sales and fuel taxes and licensing fees, etc.) This 47% is a considerably higher than from 1966 to 1983, when the differential between people at the top and the workers was much closer. The Republicans redistributed the wealth from the middle-class to the super rich over the next 29 years.

23. Freedoms – right to vote, freedom of speech, press, manipulated by the Republicans and their allies, the business leaders.

Bob Golden, Catholic, Christian, Eucharistic minister, often daily communicant, 16 years of Catholic education, worked in Criminal Justice for 34 years. Served in US Army

Faithful Catholics Shouldn't Vote Republican

Economy Unfair: Stiglitz & Popes. Folks, meant to have this second.  Much longer.  Shorter version follows.  Thought this was important to consider for the election and for action afterwords with whomever gets elected .
Bob 585-331-7000

Book Review by Robert E. Golden, 9/25/12 at Hoag Library

The following capsulizes Bob's take on and review of the following book and Church documents. Bob has reviewed about 50 books at libraries over the last several years. This is his fifth book on economics. He's had a personal collection of about 4000 books. Bob found the encyclicals and Stiglitz's book to be terrific reads. He highly recommends them. Find further bio at the end.

The Economy Is Unjust (and Impractical)

Economist Stiglitz, Popes Leo XIII, Pius XI, John Paul II, Benedict XVI and Thomas Jefferson Agree

Solutions: We need to convert to a just and fair economy. It's practical and right, says Joseph Stiglitz; we've “lost our moral compass.” The Popes say: We need to follow the tenets of our faith. We followers of Christ believe (and many other religions similarly): “Love thy neighbor as thyself.” We must try to follow this teaching.

The problems: “Our society, our democracy and our economy” are all in peril, Nobel Prize winning economist Joseph Stiglitz says in his June released best seller, The Price of Inequality. The concentration of wealth at the top, the “further impoverishment of the poor, the hollowing out of the middle class” all represent threats to our future. In what John Kay, Financial Times, calls “the best book so far on the financial crises,” Stiglitz describes how it happened and several steps we can take to put us back on track.

Pope Leo XIII in 1891, in response to the Industrial Revolution, wrote the Encyclical, Rerum Novarum on the rights of laborers to “decent work” and a “just wage.”

Joseph Stiglitz shows the impracticality of concentrated wealth and power at expense of the middle and lower classes. Leo XIII focuses on the injustice and immorality of capital taking almost all the profits, when the workers should also share in the “fruits of their labor.” Five succeeding popes, including John Paul II and Benedict XVI have written sequel encyclicals, expanding on Rerum Novarum.

Stiglitz shows how economies work best when everyone gains, not just the 1% or 10% of people at the top.

The super rich tend to squirrel away a lot of their earnings, often in foreign banks to avoid taxes, effectively taking the money out of the American economy. The middle and lower classes spend most or all of their income here in the US. Since we've shifted fortunes to the super rich and reduced the wealth of us others, we've reduced consumption and economic growth in the long run. Henry Ford was asked why he paid his workers so well: “So they can buy my product.”

In 2008, Pope Benedict XVI, drawing from Leo and Paul VI, describes a just wage: that which “makes it possible for families to meet their needs and provide schooling for their children...work that leaves enough room for rediscovering one's roots at a personal, familial and spiritual level; that guarantees those who have retired a decent standard of living.”

However, the exact opposite is occurring. Concentrated wealth, at the expense of the middle and lower classes, lowering of taxes on the rich and deregulation on commerce, Stiglitz shows are ruining this and other nations today. It's was the same as in the late 20's with the resulting Great Depression.

But, now, the people at the top have insulated themselves and their riches, mainly “at the expense of our nation's budget and of current and future taxpayers. At the same time, many in the lower and middle classes have not been able to escape ruin and most have lost ground.”

Stiglitz lays out the “scope of inequality in the US and how it affects the lives of millions in different ways.” He tells what to do to reduce this inequality and return to healthy economic growth.

Stiglitz cites several aspects that caused this current crisis:

1. Early 2000's tax cuts to the super rich. (Accounts for 1/5 of 2012 deficit)

2. Privatizing at much higher costs than government operation. (Stiglitz:2 to 4 times more costly)

3. Iraq & Afghanistan wars and tax cuts. We've raised taxes to pay for all prior wars since 1812.

4. Medicare drug benefit with no bargaining– est.$1/2 Trillion (over 10 years) “gift” to drug industry

5. Financial fraud and lack of enforcement – hurts federal, state and local governments.

6. Great Recession of 2008 and on: Caused in part by by the housing bubble bursting, which in turn was caused by deregulation, lack of enforcement, predatory lending with little risk to the lenders.

7. Outsourcing both jobs and money earned in the US to foreign countries and bank accounts.

8. “Tax breaks for the speculators (Wall Street, banks, etc.) vs. producers of useful products.”

9. Subsidies to super rich: No. 2 &4 are examples. Others: a. federally guaranteed second mortgages, b. “no strings” bailouts, c. subsidies and tax loopholes to oil, mining, timber, big agri-business (often to the disadvantage of the family farmer), d. to lobbying, e. to legal representation, etc., f. generally, freedom to use public assets at little or no cost, g. little pollution clean-up responsibilities, h. bank- ruptcy laws that favor the rich and allow exploitation of the middle class and poor.

Stiglitz's thinking quantifies and expands on the Pope Leo( and his successors) and our founding fathers. Thomas Jefferson, James Madison and others predicted the dangers to democracy if wealth ends up in the hands of a few.

Leo XIII said more than a century ago: we have “...two widely different castes. On one side there is the party which holds the power because it holds the wealth: which has in its grasp all labor and trade: which it manipulates for its own benefit … and which is powerfully represented in the councils of the State itself. On the other side there is the needy and powerless multitude, sore and suffering...” “It cannot but be good for the commonwealth to secure from misery (including Iraq War Vets) those on whom it so largely depends.” (True when it was written in 1891 and pretty much true today in many areas, including the US.)

Pius XI in 1931: “human society appeared more and more divided into two classes. The first, small in numbers, enjoyed practically all the comforts so plentifully supplied by modern invention. The second class, comprising the immense multitude..., was made up of those, who oppressed by dire poverty, struggled in vain to escape...”

“This...was quite satisfactory to the wealthy, who were content to abandon to charity alone, the full care of the unfortunate, as though it were a task of charity to make amends for the open violation of justice, a violation not merely tolerated, but sanctioned as at times by legislation.”

The solutions to our current state of affairs are fairly clear, but difficult to achieve, given the power and greed of many of those at the top and their control of government and the media.

Bob points out that more than wanting to post the Ten Commandments in public places, we need to know them* and try our best to follow them. Many of us insist on calling ourselves a Christian nation, (we're not, we are a multi-belief nation, but most of us are born as Christians, even the Muslims believe in Christ as prophet). We need to obey the second of Christ's “greatest commandments:” “Love thy neighbor as thyself.” (We also know who Christ meant as “neighbor.”) Most of the other major religions have similar teachings.

Some Specific Stiglitz recommendations:

1. Reverse the redistribution started in the 1980's of money from the middle class and poor to the super rich; a redistribution that started with Milton Friedman's “supply-side and “trickle-down economics,” and President Reagan's lowering taxes on the rich and deregulating. (These policies did not raise revenues as expected.) In fact, although the economy improved, it doubled the national debt during the Reagan administration.

2. Reverse the deregulation of 30 years ago and since, which has failed us as a nation so miserably, and in the same fashion, this time and at least two other times in our history.

3. Put the country back to work. We need to respect workers and pay a “living wage.” The Wegmans do it. Certainly the six billionaire Waltons, etc. can afford it. John Paul II in 1989: “...a low value is put on work and the rights that flow from it, especially the right to a just wage and the personal security of the worker and his or her family.”

4. Allow the 2001-2003 tax cuts to the rich to lapse as law says, which can reduce the deficit and debt dramatically.

5. Create a level playing field: currently (Stiglitz:) the “speculators are taxed at a fraction of rate of those who work for a living.”

6. Curb the excesses at the top.

7. Stronger, better enforced competition laws

8. Improving corporate governance – limit CEO's ability to divert so much corporate resources for their own benefit.

9. Reform bankruptcy laws, which currently favors the super-rich

10. End government give-aways to big business

11. End hidden subsidies to corporations

12. Democratize access to justice

13. Temper globalization – level the playing field

14. End current wars and scale back wasteful defense spending (note Senator McCain's ideas.)

15. Allow the government to negotiate prices with the drug industry.

16. Stop predatory lending and credit card abuses, especially aimed at the “uniformed” and meek: often poor and elderly, especially elderly women.

17. Educate and protect our children, not just those whose parents can afford private schools and top colleges. Thus, we need to hire enough qualified teachers and pay them fairly. We need to hire enough police so they can protect us and do their job with some degree of safety and pay them fairly, and firemen likewise. They were our heroes 11 years ago.

Leo XIII: “the safety of the commonwealth...is a Government's whole reason of existence...the object ...of the State should be not the advantage of the ruler, but the benefit of those over whom he(it) rules.” “The richer population have many ways of protecting themselves, and stand less in need of help from the State.” Stiglitz shows how the powerful 1% has gotten government twisted around, protecting the rich, but not the rest of us, giving the rich tax breaks, subsidies, giveaways and tax loopholes.

We often hear the rich say they've worked hard for their money and should be able to keep it all. First of all, others help, frequently including we taxpayers. Secondly, how many of the rich produce anything of value? The richest of us seem to make it manipulating or helping manipulate money: the hedge fund managers, insurance, Wall St. trading, patent holding companies, finance lawyers, or selling gambling tobacco, alcohol, soda pop and sugar or marketing, advertising, etc.

Leo recommended in addition to leaders, governmental and business becoming informed by a sense of ethics and justice, the need for workers to band together. Otherwise, “If through necessity or fear of a worse evil, the workman accepts harder conditions because an employer... will give him no better, he is the victim of force and injustice.”

Some suggest that the rest of us are jealous of the super-rich. Not me, nor most of the folks I know in my generation, who lived and profited from a more just time. We're satisfied and thankful. What gnaws at most of us is the unfairness, dishonesty, cruelty and greed of the top 1, 10 or 20%, at the expense of those less fortunate and later generations, our grandkids.

Pius XI in 1931: Concerning Leo XIII's call for justice for workers, “...Priests and laymen sought to relieve the undeserving misery of the laboring classes, ...could not persuade themselves that so radical and unjust distinction in the distribution of temporal goods was quite in harmony with the designs of an all-wise Creator.”

As the Popes say and Stiglitz suggests we need to insert faith and belief into our deliberations and actions and resuscitate our “moral compass (Stiglitz).” It can no longer be “Let the buyer beware,” “but let the seller be fair and just.” To Bill Gates warning to college graduates, “The world isn't fair, get over it,” he needs to add, 'but that doesn't excuse you from being fair and honest in your dealings .”

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Bob Golden, worked in Criminal Justice for 34 years. 16 years of Catholic Education, Eucharistic Minister, numerous Church activities, including being a member of the Buffalo Diocese Justice and Peace Commission. Was chair of one of President Reagan's Advisory Committees. He has his Masters in Counseling. He's served on numerous local, regional, state, national and church committees and has trained and spoken numerous times across the country.

*(ironically one of the vocal advocates for posting them, couldn't recite them)

Bibliography:

The Price of Inequality, How Today's Divided Society Endangers Our Future (June 2012), by Joseph E. Stiglitz, Winner of the Nobel Prize in Economics

From Vatican Website: Encyclicals:

Pope Leo XIII, Rerum Novarum, The Condition of Labor, (1891)

Pope Pius XI, Quadragesimo Anno, Reconstructing The Social Order, (1931)

Pope Paul VI, Populorum Progressio, The Progress of Peoples, (1967)

Pope John Paul II, Centisimus Anno, The Hundredth Year, (1991)

Pope Benedict XVI, Caritas in Veritate, Charity in Truth, (2008)

Thought important to consider for the elections and for actions afterward.  Gave this book review, 9/25/12 at local library.  Bob 585-331-7000. A more detailed version follows.  The encyclicals and Stiglitz's book, I found to be great reads.

Book Review: Stiglitz, Popes and Jefferson Agree

Financial Inequality Bad for United States

“Our society, our democracy and our economy” are all in peril, Nobel Prize winning economist Joseph Stiglitz says in his June released best seller, The Price of Inequality. Five Popes, from Leo XIII in 1891 to Benedict XVI in 2008 and Thomas Jefferson agree with the first two items.

Stiglitz tells we need to restore and enforce financial regulations. Deregulation was a cause of the 2008 banking and Wall Street breakdown as it was in 1929 and at least one other time in our history.

He further tells we need to let the tax breaks to the super rich expire as the early 2000's law to restore the economy required. That alone will nearly eliminate our budget deficit. It will also help reverse the wealth redistribution to the rich, that started in 1983 and is at a crisis stage now.

The concentration of wealth at the top, the “further impoverishment of the poor, the hollowing out of the middle class” all represent threats to our future. The Popes describe how this is ethically wrong and unChristian. Jefferson., Madison and others warned in mid-1780's publications on the ratification of the Constitution, that wealth concentration could ruin our democracy.

In what John Kay, Financial Times, calls “the best book so far on the financial crises,” Stiglitz describes how this concentration happened and several steps, we can take to put us back on track, including restoring regulation and elimination of tax breaks to the rich.

Last week, Bob Golden, who worked in criminal justice for 34 years, served on local, state and federal committees, including as chair of one of President Reagan's advisory committees, reviewed Stiglitz's book, referencing it to five Papal Encyclicals on the rights of labor, at Noon and 7 PM sessions at the Albion Library.

Golden quotes Leo XIII: “the safety of the commonwealth...is a Government's whole reason of existence...the object ...of the State should be not the advantage of the ruler, but the benefit of those over whom he(it) rules.” “The richer population have many ways of protecting themselves, and stand less in need of help from the State.” Stiglitz shows how the powerful “1% (or 10%)” has gotten government twisted around, protecting the rich, but not the rest of us, giving the rich tax breaks, subsidies, giveaways and tax loopholes, while most of the rest of us have lost ground and many are in ruins.

As the Popes say and Stiglitz suggests we need to reinsert faith and justice into our deliberations and actions and resuscitate our “moral compass (Stiglitz).” It can no longer be “Let the buyer beware,” “but let the seller be fair and just.” To Bill Gates warning to college graduates, “The world isn't fair, get over it,” he needs to add, 'but that doesn't excuse you from being fair and honest in your dealings .

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Golden is currently on the Buffalo Diocesan Justice and Peace Commission. For a list of Joseph Stiglitz's recommendations or further discussion with Bob, www.goldenjazz59@gmail.comwww.goldenjazz59@gmail.com (For 10 years, Bob produced for charity, the Apple Grove Inn Jazz Festival.)

“It's Supposed To Be That Way” II

“It's Supposed To Be That Way” II

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His original poem repeated and how Jim may have added to it. 

                                      by Jim Bianculli, 10/22/2008, published 10/4/2011

Jim and his doctors thought that he might die in three to five years. It's been 13 years now. This is Jim's prayer of acceptance. He and his wife, Marilyn “Moey” Meany Bianculli are just celebrating their 54^th Anniversary. They have six children, twelve grandchildren and three great grandchildren.

My mind more and more transposes, misspells, forgets.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My hands are starting to shake.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My arms cannot lift as much, bruise, and cut easily.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My legs, all those cramps, especially at night.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My skin changes color like the Fall season.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My eyes see less and at times blur and tear.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My nose gets sore and runs,

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My voice, my signing is bad, I mumble.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My ears grow hair: maybe that's why I hear less.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My nails grow hard, fast and discolor.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

My heart beats different and hurts for many different reasons.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

But my soul gets stronger and closer to God each day.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way,

All because of Him.

Submitted and typed by Jim's long time friend, Bob Golden in September 2011. Jim, Bob, Dick Taylor, Dick McGill and Jack Brown called themselves “The Five.,” They spent many a day and evening playing pick-up football, basketball and baseball, and double, triple, quadruple and quint-triple dating. Jack never married, but the other four were in each others' weddings and have celebrated their 50^th anniversaries. All five are devout Catholics. They all remain in regular contact.

1/14/12 – The above I sent to our friends from Elmira Catholic High and posted on our Google blog: bobmarggolden.blogspot.com (access through Google).

I'd like to add what I imagine Jim might have added and hopefully he's guiding my hand from Heaven where he surely is. Bob Golden

Moey and I go to the doctor. He tells me that I'm producing less oxygen. But go ahead to Moey's 75^th birthday party this weekend.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

All because of Him.

We go to the party. The family is all there, all the kids, their spouses, the grandkids, the greatgrandkids. We have a wonderful time, although I'm weaker and weaker.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

All because of Him.

Getting my breath is becoming a greater struggle now. But I still say my morning Rosary.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

All because of Him.

They give me some medication to reduce the panic of being out of breath. They advise it will make me uneasy. Moey's with me. Our family is there with me much of the time.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

All because of Him.

The end is near. My family surrounds me with love. I wish Moey could come with me. But she'll come later.

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

All because of Him.

The priest assures me that with the sacraments, I'm as pure a new born babe. Moey assures me too, encourages me to relax, “You're OK. You're fine, dear Jim.”

It's OK. It's supposed to be that way.

All because of Him.

I'm in God's home now, my new home, but my spirit is with you all. It was a wonderful life with you. It's wonderful here. You'll all love it. Happy Valentine's Day.

It's OK. I'm OK. I love you. It's supposed to be this way.

All because of Him.

          Jim